Coffee Chat Guide

Coffee Chat Guide

How to approach informal lawyer conversations with preparation, confidence, and better questions.

6 min readUpdated 2026-05-30

Overview

Coffee chats are a low-pressure way to learn how a firm, office, practice group, or student program actually feels. The best conversations are informed but not scripted.

Key Takeaways

A strong coffee chat is specific, respectful of time, and focused on learning rather than performing.

  • Read the firm profile before the conversation.
  • Ask about work allocation, training, junior tasks, and office-specific practices.
  • Keep notes afterward so future interviews become more concrete.

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Open with a concise reason for reaching out, then ask questions that only a person at that firm could answer. Avoid questions that are already answered on the website. Good topics include student feedback, mentorship, practice group exposure, and how juniors build responsibility.

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